Date: 12/2/2009

Key to a long relationship

Being in a romanticrelationship can becomplicated. With all theexpectations andconditions attached to it,itcan be quite draining andexhausting. I have alwaysbelieved that one of themajor reasons whyrelationships end isbecauseof disappointments.Sometimes lovers keepsilent about theirexpectations to theirlover,for what reason, I don'texactly know but somekeep silent about theirexpectations to theirlovedone to avoid hurtingthem,to prevent becoming astressor to their lover, andsome to test the extent oflove, affection andsacrificetheir partner has to offerto the relationship.The thing is silentexpectations leads tosilentdisappointments. Andsilent disappointmentscanstem into a lot of issues.Disappointments cansometimes lead to lost ofinterest, lost of respect,lostof trust, and in worstcasesdisappointments can leadto vengeful emotions. Themajority root cause ofinfidelity is yawningdisappointment that iswhyif you want to stay clearfrom infidelity relatedissues, you have to dropthe silent expectationsgame and be vocal aboutit. Just like friends do.Friends tell each otherabout what they expectfrom each other, eitherthey can reach what...


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